I am a Mother...and a daughter

I received and read I Am a Mother today. It was a great book that really made me think. The sociology major in me was fascinated by the societal judgments of mothering. Its interesting that those on the outside looking in and those that are in our same circumstances can have such strong opinions about the role of mothers. I found myself thinking about how I feel about myself as a mother. I don't think I'm particularly good at it (not that I'm terrible, either) but it made me question why do I feel that way about myself?

Well, I have an amazing mom, but I unfortunately have treated her unkindly too often. I have focused on the few negatives rather than the profuse positives, this has undoubtedly clouded my opinion of myself as a mother as well since as we judge we will be judged (even if its just judging ourselves). I have always loved and admired my mom, she just deserves much more respect. So, in an effort to change this I give you an homage to my mom.

My mom is the most loving person I have ever met--truly. She loves everyone and you can not come into her home without feeling it.

My mom loves to serve. I haven't always supported her efforts, but she honestly loves to do things for those that she loves. My dad is one lucky guy, she takes care of him constantly.

My mom loves to laugh. She also loves to have others laugh. Making others happy is her ambition in life.

She can zone out of anything going on around her if she is watching a good TV show, especially Murder, She Wrote.

My mom doesn't like it when others are hurting. Whenever someone was being teased or "tricked" she just couldn't let it go on, much to the chagrin of some. :)

She is hands down the best cook I've come in contact with.

She really loves sports, but she gets really into it so she can't always watch. When we played soccer she would run along the side line kicking her foot out as if she were on the field.

She was and is incredibly supportive. She never missed anything that I did in school, be it a play, a concert, or a game. Not only that, but she enjoyed it. Even now, she has coerced my dad into being present for all of Bryant's birthdays.

She is an amazing seamstress. She has sewn me some magnificent gowns (including my wedding dress).

She is genuinely happy and it radiates from her.

She is a great storyteller.

My mom is one of my very best friends. She is a good listener (most of the time) and she gives good advice.

She is a fantastic teacher. She has so many talents and she is so willing to share her wealth with anyone willing to sit down beside her and learn.

She is very devoted and teaches me almost daily to be so.

My mom is the epitome of an optimist. She always wants to believe that the best will happen.

My mom can not hold a grudge. She forgives more readily than anyone I know. For this, I am very grateful.

My mom has a testimony of the gospel and she knows that the Savior lives and that He loves her. She has helped me to gain my testimony of these things.

I love my mom for these and many other reasons. She inspires me to be a better mom and a better person. She is incredible!