Once upon a time there was a girl. She loved to read, she loved to create, and she loved to cook. Then she remembered she had 6 kids and didn't have time for any of those things... this nook is for Kim, the individual; not Kim, the mom; not Kim, the wife; just Kim, the girl.
Monday, January 05, 2009
The Hunger Games ****
Friday, December 05, 2008
The Glass Lake **
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
And the winner is...
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
hollidaisy grand opening and giveaway
hollidaisy is my new etsy shop. Come check it out then enter my giveaway... details below.
To celebrate I am hosting a GIVEAWAY!!! C'mon, I know you like free stuff as much as I do... the giveaway will include a Christmas hairbow, 4 Christmas cards, and 6 Christmas tree ornaments. I would love to have your help in getting the ball rolling and this is a great way to say thank you!
There are three ways to enter the giveaway, but the first thing you need to do is check out my shop. You should probably add it to your favorites so you can check back often since I'll be adding stuff pretty often. And feel free to buy anything you like. :o) After you do that, do one (or more) of these three options...
1. Leave me a comment on this post telling me what your 3 favorite things are in my shop. If you have any great ideas to make it better or something in particular you'd like me to make, you can leave that in your comment as well.
2. Post a link on your blog!!! This giveaway could reach lots of people if you all put it on your blog and then your friends put it on their blogs... be sure if you do this that you leave me a comment on this post telling me. It can be in the same comment as #1 or a different one. You'll get entered in the giveaway TWICE if you put it on your blog! (three times if you tell me what you like)!
3. If you don't have a blog, don't worry, you can still get in on the fun-though you'll still have to leave me a comment. What I would like you non-blogging folk to do is email the news and links to your friends. If you pass it along to 5 friends, you'll get entered into the giveaway. If you pass it along to 15 friends, you'll be entered TWICE!
Everyone who enters the giveaway by leaving a comment (even if that's all you do) will receive a little thank you gift to let you know how much I appreciate your help. The giveaway winner will be randomly selected on Wednesday November 26-that's the day before Thanksgiving.
So, if my math is correct, you have an opportunity to be entered into my giveaway 5 times! But you'll need to be sure you leave me comments telling me what all you've done to help me. I really, really appreciate you helping me spread the word.
Are you ready? hollidaisy here we come!
Sunday, October 26, 2008
Grosgrain is the Coolest Sewing blog ever!
This gal has some of the most fabulous designs and she does a TWO giveaways a week! Isn't that awesome!!! You should definitely check it out.
If you have a little girl, seriously, check her out. She is opening up a shop soon and I know it will be fabulous!
Monday, October 20, 2008
North and South *****
Well, let me tell you, Liz has good taste.
I loved this book! I will admit, it was much more difficult to read than what I've been reading lately, so it has taken me a lot longer to finish than normal. That has nothing to do with how much I enjoyed it though. At first I found this strange, but as I thought about it, I realized it was like a bowl of ice cream. On the few occasions that I allow myself that indulgence, I get out a baby spoon. I take tiny bites and eat really slowly, so that I can enjoy it for as long as possible. I could only read this book in quiet moments, rather than when the kids are playing or watching a movie. So, those moments I could steal away it was an indulgence and even though I only got a baby spoonful at times, I savored it bit by bit.
This story is about Margaret Hales. At the beginning of the book she is returning to her home and parents in the southern town of Helstone from her aunt's home in London. She loves her parents very much and I love the way the relationship was built. Her father is a vicar, but develops doubts in his beliefs and feels he can no longer maintain his position in the church and thereby must leave their home. Feeling it would be too painful to be in any country that resembles Helstone he opts to move his family to as different a place as possible, Milton in the north. Milton is a manufacturing town, with all the grit and grime that come along with that. The family are shocked and despaired by the move, but make acquaintances and even friends in the new town that is struggling through its own crisis of a strike.
I loved the way the novel explored so many levels of human thought and emotion, as well as social thought and emotion. The sociology major in me was intrigued by the battle between the working class and the masters and then in the "experiments" that occurred toward the end.
I loved the romance and the admiration that was felt for Margaret. I loved the builing up of admiration and romance within Margaret. I loved the study into the role of women in different classes. I loved the way it was written with chapter titles; I thought I knew what the chapter would entail and then I was surprised as the title would be fitting to another aspect of the story. I loved the theme of faith throughout the book. I loved most of the side characters and the depth they all brought to the tale.
I think most of all, I loved Margaret. I loved the way she started as so good. And I love the way she developed and became better. I love the way she was respected by all for the way she lived and treated others even though she did not fit the "mold" of either the north or the south ladies. She was truly a commendable character and one that I feel better for having "known." She exemplary in so many ways, goodness, virtue, purity, charity, humility. The list could go on. One thing I loved about her was that she was always thinking of how to help others... I also felt very sorry for her in this regard. She would put off her own needs forever if it had been needed of her. She never thought of herself as all of these things but only saw ways to improve. Yet, she didn't really sink into self-loathing either. She was just awesome and in so many ways the woman I hope to be.
Aside from two things this book was practically perfect. Those two things for me are: the dialect of the workers in Milton and the ending. The was the dialect was written was so difficult for me to read and understand. I found myself reading some passages two or three times to gain their meaning. This, I'm sure, is a fault ofmy own and not of the writing. The ending, however was extremely abrupt and there is no follow up to the happiness we hope will ensue. All in all, though I have to give this one 5 stars. From the first moment I started reading it, I loved it. I was anxious to see where it went and I was not only satisfied, but happy as it got there. Five stars *****!
Monday, October 06, 2008
Tag I'm it...
- I love cheese! Simply delicious... although not the yucky stinky kind my brother got from Switzerland. Tillamook medium cheddar is the best!
- My closet is color coordinated.
- I love to bake... since I'm not eating treats lately, I have been making the most delicious granola.
- I love children's shows. When I was in the hospital and could watch whatever, I found myself watching Phineas and Ferb on the Disney Channel. I'm seriously hoping they release it on DVD, it is my favorite! I also will watch Arthur or Cyber Chase over most other shows.
- My house is always a mess. And I usually don't care, as long as its not that messy.
- I used to be a morning person, but now I'm not. I'm not a night owl either, though. I just really like to sleep.
- I'm supposedly training for a half marathon, but I've only run twice in the past 3 weeks. Go figure (just not in the direction I'm hoping for).
- I'm not really into tagging people, so you're off the hook (unless you want to do it).
Auction and Giveaway on My Tiny Star
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
Stardust **-
The story follows Tristran (I was 2/3 through it before I realized his name wasn't Tristan) into Faerie on a mission to find a star that fell from the night sky. Along the way he has many who help him in his quest and many who are on the same mission and will do anything to achieve their goal. It was violent at times... I mean graphic! Again, not the best idea to read with kids in the back seat.
I liked the story itself-though I found it less than compelling. The prose was hard for me to enjoy. And the "adult" nature of so many of the events was pointless to me. I found it annoying, we could have had a better experience with the novel had the naughty stuff been left out. It was more of a distraction than anything- even if I hadn't been reading it out loud with kids around. So, because of the story it gets 2 1/2 stars... I liked it, but that is the extent of my enjoyment. That coupled with all the garbage, I have to bring it down to 2.5, looking back I think it was just OK.
Artemis Fowl The Arctic Incident ****
I don't like to give a lot of info in my reviews, because I don't like to give spoilers. The biggest reason for this is that I like to read a book knowing as little about it as possible. I want to experience it all.
I think the primary reason I liked this one so much more was that Artemis had some redeeming qualities. In the first, he had nothing going for him, but this time I felt sympathy for him and wanted him to succeed. On top of that, my favorite characters from the first book were in this one and they all worked together to achieve their goals. I really enjoyed it.
Perhaps my favorite part of the book was the story following Foaly. Foaly is just a great character! The characters were all more enjoyable this time around, perhaps because I have a "relationship" with them already.
It wasn't my all time favorites, but I loved it! It was fun to read and it was fun to see the connections made by the characters I've grown to love.
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
The Alchemist The Secrets of the Immortal Nicholas Flamel ***-
Well, apparently I was wrong and it made the story so much more exciting... even though its not a "true" story. Just the fact that the characters (at least some of them) were real people that had fascinating and sometimes mysterious happenings in their lives.
The story is about a brother and sister, twins Sophie and Josh, who get caught up in a magical world they had no idea existed. Nicholas Flamel is the possessor of the Philosopher's Stone (sound familiar?) and an ancient book that has many secrets and magic within. The book gets stolen from him by John Dee (another true character). The book is about the twins, Flamel and some others trying to get it back and prevent more bad things from happening-like the end of the world as we know it. It is the first book in a series of (I think) seven.
I liked the book quite a lot. I think because its the first book in a series, it had a lot of development that needed to happen, so if you read it be prepared. The author did a great job of creating the magical world. The characters were real enough and fun enough to get into. I liked the relationship of Sophie and Josh. I always wanted a twin brother. There was humor, mystery, action... a little bit of everything. The author's writing was a just a little less than compelling. It was hard for me to really get into it.
I think I am a bit tired of fantasy/sci-fi. I think I would have enjoyed this one more if I'd been less so. Even under the circumstances though, 3.5 stars out of 5. And I'm really looking forward to reading The Magician, the next book in the series. It will just have to wait a couple weeks.
Friday, September 12, 2008
Shakespeare's Secret ***
It is a story about a girl named Hero (after the character in Much Ado About Nothing) and a search for a diamond that could lead to answer of the "Who was the real Shakespeare" question. Hero and her next door neighbor, Mrs. Roth along with the hottest boy in the 8th grade, Danny Cordova embark on the adventure together.
I liked the mystery involved. Both mysteries, I guess you could say; finding the diamond and the Shakespeare mystery. The book was obviously written for young readers (the main character is in the 6th grade). Therefore, the web woven wasn't very intricately, just enough to keep it somewhat interesting for an adult.
The Shakespeare mystery was what I enjoyed the most about this book. I've heard the arguments that perhaps William Shakespeare isn't really the author of the plays and poems, or at least all of them. I don't know a lot about it, really. This book gave me a little insight into some of those arguments for or against. The details and accounts in the book made me want to read and learn more of the period and of various historical figures like Henry VIII, Anne Boylen, and Elizabeth I.
I read it in a day, so you can see it was an easy and enjoyable read. I would recommend this one to my young reader friends, or if you have kids in the 4th-7th grade reading level you might want to check it out. Its always good to read something that encourages you to read and learn more, right?
Thursday, September 11, 2008
Book Of A Thousand Days *****
I just read Book of A Thousand Days and I loved it! I love the way Shannon Hale lures the smells, tastes, sights and sounds out of words. I don't think there is another author who influences my sense as she does.
This book is written in a completely different style. I wasn't sure I was going to like it when I started about 20 hours ago. Its written as a book of thoughts or a sort of journal. The narrator of the tale is a mucker (she sings songs to heal, help, soothe, etc.). This is sort of Hale's specialty in so many of her books the characters have special gifts with a language of sorts. I find it fascinating. Dashti, the mucker and narrator, becomes a servant to Lady Saren and gets locked in a tower with her. She starts writing this book to fill the time and lonliness. One thing I really enjoy about Hale's stories is that I never quite know what to expect in the resolution. I generally expect a happy ending, but I'm never sure what that happiness will be. I go throughout the entire book just anxious to see how the problems will be resolved...not like so many other books that are quite predictable. I also love that I love the character she develops. I want the problems to be resolved and for everyone to be happy because I really care about the characters. That is a sign of a great writer to me...making characters that feel or rather, that make me feel. This book has those kinds of characters, I was swept away and I couldn't put it down.
This book, like most books that I enjoy are in the Young Adult category and it is targeted at a younger audience, but I loved it! It was an easy read (obviously). I can highly recommend it to pretty much everyone!
Tuesday, September 09, 2008
Artemis Fowl 3.5***-
First of all, he is 12 years old and a prodigy. That concept appeals to me as I really enjoy the characters of Ender and Bean (and many of the Battle School brats). His parents are less than available to him for one reason or another (don't want to give it all away). However, the lengths which he is ready and willing to go to to achieve his goal (MONEY! and lots of it) are just inexcusable.
Aside from him being the "hero" of the story I really liked it. I loved the other characters. Short, Root, and Foaly were great fun! Even Butler and Juliet were enjoyable. The plot was a very interesting story. A boy genius deciphers the end all say all fairy magic book, kidnaps a fairy all in an effort to make back his family fortune. I loved all the magic. I loved the different kinds of magical beings and their different "gifts" (some very funny). I even liked the way it ended for the most part.
I believe that there is a series of books following Artemis (and hopefully the other characters, the ones I liked a lot). I will be reading at least one more to see where the author goes. I would give this book 3 1/2 stars of 5. I did like it, more than just liked it...but I don't know if I could say that I loved it. I would recommend it, only if you enjoy a fun fantasy novel that is quite obviously written for younger readers. I don't think everyone would enjoy it...but I know some would enjoy it more than I did.
Friday, September 05, 2008
Keeping a Journal
I was telling my sis-in-law what I was doing and she asked if I write in a journal and I said I blog. I recently downloaded BookSmart software from blurb.com and it can slurp your whole blog and you can publish it into a book. I think we'll probably do that with a lot of our posts, it will be fun to see it in that format. I love looking through photo/scrap books, but haven't done a great job keeping up with them... so blogs are great for me! I don't put all my emotional garbage in either, so maybe generations down the road will be able to look at me as a somewhat sane person. I have just enough ranting to make me seem normal, to those that don't know better! Photo journals are good and you all know I can ramble on and on... so trust me, posterity, you'll thank me for this kind of journal!Now, mom, if you want to start blogging as much as me you can just frame this gift, but if you're not up to blogging it all, just keep the journal in your knitting bag and write in it once a week or so on the train...we'll thank you for this kind of journal!
Thursday, August 28, 2008
The Wednesday Letters **
I didn't really like this book. It wasn't bad, I guess, but I couldn't recommend it to anyone. It is the story of a family. The parents die in their old age and the kids all come together for the funeral. They discover that their dad wrote a letter to their mother every week... wait for it... on Wednesday... get it, the title? eh?
First of all, it takes almost half the book before they get to the letters, this bugged me. They also uncover a deep, dark family secret through these letters and have to deal with it. I guess the reason I didn't like the book was mainly because I didn't really care about any of the characters. Oh, wait, I did really like A & P. The aunt seemed to be a cool character too, but we didn't see much of her. Maybe it was because the author wanted to keep it short and simple, but the character development left much to be desired.
The other reason I didn't like this book was the ending. It seemed so juvenile. When I was in 7th grade I went to Gifted and Talented camp for writing. While there we wrote a book about the meeting of the trans-continental railroad with the Golden Spike. I recently found and read the chapter that I wrote and I laughed at myself. The ending of this book totally reminded me of my chapter in the book. My mom will get mad at me for this, but have you ever watched Murder, She Wrote? You know at the end, when everything just comes out. That's how this was. There wasn't enough build up to the moment, not enough foreshadowing (though there was some, I guess). Because of this lack of build up, it seems the book was trying to make a giant leap and it fell flat on the ground, for me.
Have any of you read this book? How did you feel about it? I am more than sure that there are people that really like this book, I am just not one of them. If you are, please tell me what I missed. I give it 2 of 5 stars, luckily it was an easy and quick read, otherwise I would have just stopped reading and wouldn't have this lovely review for all of you.
Monday, August 25, 2008
Breaking Dawn ***
Wednesday, August 13, 2008
A Book Review! Enchantment ****
Enchantment by Orson Scott Card is a story about a modern man,Ivan, who discovers that fairytales are based on actual events as he magically enters one in the 9th or 10th century. While he is a little boy he comes upon a "sleeping beauty" being guarded by some unseen monster. As an adult he returns to the site just to prove to himself that he imagined the whole thing, but she is still there. She is trapped in a world between time with bridges into her world and ours. When he awakens her she tells him to propose marriage, so he does. He then follows her into her world and tries desperately to learn how to be a proper "king" all the while trying to evade the evil witch who cast the spell on sleeping beauty, none other than Baba Yaga.
It sounds rather silly as I type about it, but I thoroughly enjoyed this book! It was such a fun read and I totally recommend it, unless you absolutely despise magic and can't get past it enough to enjoy a fabulous story. If that is you, you should open your mind and imagination a bit and enjoy a good fantasy story! ;o)
I give Enchantment 4 out of 5 stars, only because it had bad language that put this one in the PG-13 category. I hate that, it can totally ruin a book for me! It wasn't bad enough to ruin the book, but it definitely made it unworthy of 5 stars.
Sunday, July 13, 2008
Getting in touch with my feeling...
My sister-in-law did this on her blog and since I've been a whirlwind of emotions lately I thought it would be good for me to do it too. You don't have to read it, it was mostly for therapy...it may give you insights into a scary mind...
I am: a Mormon wife and mom.
I know: that I am loved.
I want: to stop being so grumpy.
I wish: that this baby would turn and that we were in our house.
I hate: dealing with grumpy kids in such closed quarters!
I miss: having all my stuff and room for it.
I fear: that my kids will be ruined by my mothering.
I feel: disappointed that things aren't going well for our family.
I hear: Phineas and Ferb (A show on the Disney channel that is awesome!).
I smell: the remains of peanut butter and jam sandwiches.
I crave: baked goodness.
I search: the internet for info on C-sections.
I wonder: how I'm going to get the kids to sleep tonight.
I love: my husband and my boys.
I ache: all over my abdomen, the doctor didn't take it easy on my yesterday.
I care: too much about what others think.
I always: eat too much!
I am not: as great as people give me credit for.
I dance: because I love it, though I'm no good.
I sing: not nearly often enough lately.
I cry: when I'm overflowing with emotion.
I don't always: treat my hubby like he deserves.
I write: in my journal when I can't talk it out with someone for one reason or another.
I win: when I play "Encore" against Jane at 3 am.
I lose: whenever I play a strategy game again my brothers.
I never: want to be hurt those I love.
I listen: to my loved ones.
I can usually be found: sitting down somewhere.
I need: to be needed.
I am scared: of the water.
I am happy about: buying a house I can decorate!
I think: about way too much when I should be sleeping.
OK, so I didn't get too deep...but it was fun! Tag to anyone who wants to play!
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
June Book

From DeseretBook.com, "Is the way that women evaluate their own worth affected still by the biblical story of Mother Eve? Author Beverly Campbell suggests, "In much of the literature and in most of the histories referring to women there is an undercurrent of apology, as though there is something not quite 'all right' about being a woman. In looking for the source of this unease, I came to recognize that it could be traced to accounts of the Creation and to the ever-prevalent and negative characterizations of Eve."
She writes of three levels from which the story of Eden must be viewed: as historical fact, as a series of symbols and metaphors, and as a place for a beginning our own search for spiritual understanding and relevance in life. This compelling book may change forever your perception of our first parents and the choice they made."
Sunday, June 08, 2008
Cards Galore!
I love using paint chips to make cards. At Lowe's they have one paint brand with the square cute out already, it is perfect for card making! Paint chips are great because they're colorful and they're free!


Tuesday, May 27, 2008
Scarlet Pimpernel Discussion
- Do you consider the narrator to be impartial? Does the narrator ally him or herself with a class, a country, a cause?
- Who is the central protagonist in The Scarlet Pimpernel? In other words, who carries the emotional weight of the novel?
- How is point-of-view a crucial device in the rendering of Percy? Do we ever experience events through his perspective? How is his heroism dependent upon the way he is seen?
- At what point does Lady Blakeney become a sympathetic character? Would you consider her an unlikable character as she initially appears?
- What purpose does the Comtesse de Tournay serve in the larger arc of the novel? Why do you think she disappears after the first section of the book?
- How does Chauvelin manage to be a threatening villain without ever having to engage in physical combat with the Pimpernel? Is he ultimately threatening?
- How is the Scarlet Pimpernel flower a larger motif for the themes of the novel? Does it fit Percy as a character?
- Why doesn't Chauvelin have to die at the end of the book for a successful resolution? Would the novel have been more satisfying with a different resolution, or does the resolution as Orczy presents it fit the tenor of the book as a whole?
- How does loyalty play a key role in the distinction between Percy succeeding and Chauvelin failing in achieving their goals? Are these respective men's followers equally loyal to their causes? Is their loyalty distinct?
- Is Percy a less admirable hero for never physically taking on his enemies? What is his ultimate goal as the Scarlet Pimpernel?
Wednesday, May 21, 2008
Simple Pleasures
Friday, May 02, 2008
Creative Therapy







I think this is funny...
You Are Pocahantas!

Free-spirited and wise. You have a strong passionate spirit that touches and changes all who know you. The wisdom and common sense that you have is really what guides you through life. Even so, you also have a very playful side that loves adventure and excitement.
Which Disney Princess Are You?
I think this fits me a lot better than Marianne Dashwood, maybe thats because its all positive. I'm so vain!
Why Have a Book Club...
"improve yourself to the utmost in studying good books and in associating with, and listening to, and profiting by, the conversation and experience of good persons."So, my few fellow readers... thanks for helping me to follow a prophet. I can read good books, but I need you in order to follow all of his counsel.
"Listen attentively, and observe minutely the manners, customs, and remarks of all, for from the most humble of our fellow creatures an observing man can learn something that will be useful to him in after life."I love this! I try to be observant, but I don't know if I've placed the reason. I completely agree that I can learn from even the "most humble of [my] fellow creatures." It just validates that we are each important, not only to our Father in Heaven, but also to our brothers and sisters on the Earth.
Tuesday, April 22, 2008
Just for fun
Tuesday, April 15, 2008
UGLIES ***
So, I finished UGLIES by Scott Westerfield yesterday. It was a pretty good book. It was definitely an easy read with an interesting story, but it was lacking something for me. I wasn't totally involved with the characters and the story until perhaps the last section (its divided into 3 sections). The picture is Book 1 (UGLIES) and 2 (PRETTIES) of this 3 book series, the last book is called SPECIALS.
Monday, April 14, 2008
Other Fun Stuff


Thursday, April 10, 2008
Book Tag
Here are the rules:
1. Pick up the nearest book (at least 123 pages).
2. Turn to page 123.
3. Find the 5th sentence
4. Post the 5th sentence on your blog
5. Tag 5 people
Book: UGLIES by Scott Westerfield (my current read)
Sentence:
Tally collapsed onto the bed, covering her face with her hands and sobbing.
Tag: Terra, Liz, KellyAnne, Kim V., Camille
I haven't even gotten this far in the book yet, so I have no idea what Tally is so upset about.
If I didn't tag you and you're dying to do it, please do...if I did tag you and you hate being tagged, please accept my apologies and I will not hold it against you if I don't see this on your blog! ;o)
For book club in my ward last month we read Jane Eyre, we all had different editions and learned that each edition had a different number of pages...wouldn't it be funny if we all had this tag then...
Wednesday, April 09, 2008
Which Jane Austen Heroine are you?
You are Marianne Dashwood of Sense & Sensibility! You are impulsive, romantic, impatient, and perhaps a bit too brutally honest. You enjoy romantic poetry and novels, and play the pianoforte beautifully. To boot, your singing voice is captivating. You feel deeply, and love passionately.
Tuesday, April 08, 2008
Freakonomics Discussion ***
- What is the purpose of the book?
- From the Introduction:Do you buy Levitt and Dubner's claim that conventional wisdom is often wrong? What is the role of conventional wisdom in society?
- From Chapter 1: Why do you think more parents at the Israeli day care came late after the financial penalty was added? Are their situations in your life where guilt is a better motivator than money?
- From Chapter 1: Do you believe Levitt and Dubner's findings about Chicago school teachers and sumo wrestlers cheating? Did the findings surprise you?
- From Chapter 2: How do you think the Internet is changing the information advantage of experts and secret societies (like real estate agents and the KKK)?
- From Chapter 3: Were you surprised by how similar the Black Disciples' organizational structure was to corporations like McDonalds? Why do you think people perceive drug dealers as well off financially?
- From Chapter 4: Do you buy Levitt and Dubner's argument that the drop in crime in the 1990s was the result of Roe v. Wade? What are the strengths and weaknesses of their argument?
- From Chapter 5 & 6: Do you agree that their is little parents can do to influence whether their children are successful? Do you think there are high-end and low-end names?
- Rate Freakonomics on a scale of one to five.
Blogging Woes
Tuesday, April 01, 2008
April Book
Well, the people have spoken and the book this month is Freakonomics by Steven Levitt. I just finished it today and I think it will be a good discussion...that is, if you'll join me! It is a really easy read (I started it Sunday and only read while the kids were in bed for the night-keep in mind that this prego body of mine cannot stay awake very long while reading).
I do have to warn you that it has some controversial topics discussed and there are a couple of places that have bad language. To warn you in advance, the first happens in Chapter 2, How Is the Ku Klux Klan Like a Group of Real-Estate Agents? (page 70) in a conversation between two guys Kevin and Bob. Its not pertinent, so skip it if you'd like. The next chapter is Why Do Drug Dealers Still Live with Their Moms? In it there is a lot of discussion of gangs and there is a lot of bad language from their quotes. I'm sorry if you're terribly offended by our choice...I honestly didn't know the content when I suggested it, I'd just heard great things about it.
I hope you'll read this one, its not our typical read by any stretch of the imagination. It was quite enjoyable and offers some new perspectives to many subjects. And like I said, it should prove to be a great discussion. I'll post questions by April 8 and then you can respond as you read. Thanks for voting!
Oh, one last thing...since The Scarlet Pimpernel was such a close second (it really could have been a tie, if you read the comments to the post below) we'll plan on reading it in May! I'm going to go get my copy from the library this week.
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
April Anniversary!
Help me celebrate by reading with me!
I'm posting a survey on the right, please vote for your choice to read in April.
Also, in the comments, please give me your ideas for future books.
If you'd like to be in charge of selecting the book and questions
I would love to have you! Let me know!
Thursday, March 13, 2008
OUTRAGED!
Well, last night as I was reading about a new character I noticed on their sponsored links some very inappropriate pictures. I immediately closed that window and was appalled and outraged.
I know a lot of people think that stuff is OK, its the norm...yackety-schmackety. If people want to destroy their minds and spirits by viewing such vulgar material that is their prerogative. However, I choose to not subject myself to such vileness and feel completely angry, indignant, even livid when that choice is taken away from me.
Shame on those that prey on innocent web browsers. I thought I could trust a site and learned, regretfully, that I was wrong. I have since written a letter of complaint to the administrator of lostpedia expressing my concern and hope to make a difference, though I doubt I will-I'm losing my hope in humanity.
Friday, February 29, 2008
So many emotions for one little (and growing) body
Moving really takes it out of you. So does being pregnant. I have been completely exhausted lately and I attribute much of my emotions to that exhaustion. While moving every 3 months isn't my ideal, it the moving itself hasn't been so bad...its the lack of friendship that is really wearing on me. I feel SO isolated going from one place to the next. Don't get me wrong there are definitely nice people wherever we've gone and I have made some friends that I will probably keep in touch with, even if not very frequently. But I miss having friends I feel like I can call and say, "Hey, can I come over, we can let the kids play, we can chat..." I've been lucky to have nice places to live that aren't multiple family units, but along with that, we've pretty much been on our own. With only one car, I get stuck at home all day, except when I take the kids out for a walk. Even then, we haven't lived close enough to friends to walk to their houses. So basically, my need for time with friends has been solely found on the phone (hence 3000+ minutes in one month). I am very lucky to have such great friends and family who will talk to me. My isolation isn't as bad as it could be, thank goodness!
Yesterday, I had an ultrasound. Everything looks good with the baby, measuring about the same as my due date ( a little big, but it is one of my babies). We also found out that we will be welcoming our first baby girl this summer. This filled me with many mixed emotions, best summed up with one word, anxiety.
Excitement, of course! Even though there are many people out there who think I'm not excited, I am truly excited. I have said all along that I would be happy with a girl at this point, but I wasn't dying to have one. You all know that my life's happiness wasn't dependent upon having a girl. I'll be able to do lots of fun things with my daughter that probably wouldn't happen with all boys. I really look forward to that. Excitement is part of anxiety, so it fits with my one word choice.
Another part of my anxiety stems from the change that will happen to our family. Girls are different...in too many ways to even imagine. Granted, most aren't a big deal, but as a whole its a lot of change. For instance, changing diapers will be different. I'll have to explain all the anatomy differences to my boys. We'll be forced to get all new clothes (which of course, could be fun, but $ isn't growing on any trees at our house). Speaking of which, do I keep my boy clothes for future or can I just get rid of them now and possibly be in the same predicament next time around. One other change mostly just affects me, rather than the whole family. I don't know why it matters, but for some reason it does to me. I, for my entire life, have been the "only girl" in my immediate family. That will now change and it is kind of freaking me out. I guess I don't know where I'll stand anymore or something like that. I know that is totally dumb, but my whole perception of the world has revolved around my place in the family and that place has always been the only girl. Anyhow, I have some anxiety about having a girl for all of these and other reasons.
I also have been stressed by the class I have been taking to finish my degree. For those of you who haven't heard this horrid tale, I'll explain. 5 years ago I graduated from Weber State University with a BS in Sociology. However, prior to having Bryant I suffered the loss of a miscarriage and for one reason or another it threw me into a deep depression. (I say "one reason or another" because I have had lots of friends suffer a miscarriage and none of them have been in the throws of despair like I was). Well, the semester I had my loss I was taking Sociological Statistics. I was doing really well in the class, 100% on the first test...then my baby died and with it all my ambition. I stopped going to class, I stopped going to work, I stopped functioning as much as possible without becoming a vegetable (maybe it wasn't that bad). Well, I was able to pull passing grades in most of my classes that semester and a lot of my professors showed mercy, but this one, not so much. I got like 73% on test 2 but I didn't do 5 of the 8 assignments. I clearly had an understanding of what the professor expected me to know as I got 97% on the final. However, because I had only completed 3 busy work assignments I didn't pass the class with a C or better which was needed to fill the requirement for graduation. Well, I was pretty bitter...at the professor and at myself for being a slacker. Finally after 4 years had gone by I decided to do some research to find a class to fill the requirement that I could do either online or independent study; enter BYU Psychological Statistics. Now this class was so much harder than my class at WSU, so it really stressed me out. On February 23, 2008 I took my final exam in the class! It took me over 2 1/2 hours! My brain hurt, it was the hardest test I have ever taken in my life! But I did it...if only I could pass that class my unofficial graduation could become official. Well, wonder of wonder, miracle of miracles I found out today that I passed the final and the class with a B grade! HOORAY!!!! I am so thrilled! So happy! So proud (the good kind)!
And finally, many of you know the many ups and downs of mothering. Well, we have undertaken the biggest roller coaster of all-potty training! Jonas was finally ready and so we have had him in underwear all week. He is doing really well which is super exciting, but of course with success there is also some room for improvement (read-accidents). I have been praying everyday that I can be a good mom and not overreact to these and so far the Lord has blessed me.
I am so thankful for the many experiences of this life, good and bad. I am learning so much about myself and about how to rely on the Lord. That doesn't mean I'm having an easy time. When I'm up, I'm really up....when I'm down, you know how it goes. I can't think of a time I've been so happy, but so morose about it. I'm one mixed up duck, but at least I'm enjoying the journey...because who know where the destination will be.
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
Austenland ***-
What did you think of the story?
What was your opinion of Jane as an Austen heroine? What similarities and differences can you find with Hale's Jane and Austen's many heroines?
Deep down inside, if you're being totally honest with yourself and money were not an issue, would you consider going to a resort like this?
How did Mr. Nobley's character affect you? The gardener? What emotions did you experience with Jane?
What surprised you? What did you predict?
Do the characters seem real and believable? Can you relate to their predicaments? To what extent do they remind you of yourself or someone you know?
Did certain parts of the book make you uncomfortable? If so, why did you feel that way? Did this lead to a new understanding or awareness of some aspect of your life you might not have thought about before?
Hope all is well and to hear from you soon!
Tuesday, January 22, 2008
Persuasion Discussion *****
Explain the title.
Austen's humor works, as always, throughout, but would you describe Persuasion as a funny book?
Is Anne Elliot Austen's most perfect heroine? Do you like a perfect heroine?
Is Wentworth Austen's most perfect hero? Are you persuaded that his entanglement with Louisa Musgrove was unintentional? What do you suppose the impact of Anne's presence as spectator had on his attentions to the Musgrove girls?
Is Mrs. Russell a true friend to Anne despite her occasional bad advice? How do you feel about her eagerness to match Anne with Mr. Elliot? (Does anyone feel sorry for Elizabeth when Mr. Elliot suddenly switches his attentions from her to Anne?)
Sir Walter Elliot believes that cold weather has an unfortunate effect on women's beauty. Do you agree? How about hot weather? In which weather do you personally look your best?
In a particularly famous passage Anne Elliot says that men have had the pen in their hands when assigning strengths and weaknesses to the sexes. Now that the pen is in Austen's hands what does she use it to say about men and women?
In Bath Anne begins to believe that Wentworth still cares for her. Why can't she simply tell him she is uninterested in Mr. Elliot? Does this drive you nuts? Would you say something to him if you were Anne?
Is it still the man's job to pursue, the woman's to be pursued?
Tuesday, January 15, 2008
Did you know???
1. I love being pregnant! I feel so much better about myself (emotionally) and don't worry so much about my perception of my body (physically). It is great! I also love looking for baby names and have it down to a science (one of my favorite baby name books is Beyond Jennifer and Jason and I always check out the social security baby name popularity site). I'm kind of a freak actually...Oh and unlike many moms, I totally look forward to labor and delivery-which is done with no epidural (for my own crazy reasons) but with plenty of help.
2. Ethan and I are currently working on our "set." It includes some Allison Krause, Billy Pilgrim, Josie and the Pussycats, Jack Johnson, Damien Rice, etc. He plays the guitar and I play the "vocal harp" and together we make some pretty good music. Hopefully we'll get to the point where we do our own material at some point! I hope to get to the point where we perform at various venues. I also really want to record an album with him. It is so great making music with the one I love!
3. People from high school know this one, but most of my other friends don't. I was a drama geek and won several acting honors and awards while in high school and a bit in college. I still long for the stage and love any opportunity I get to be in front of an audience...even just speaking or singing in Sacrament meeting. In college I came VERY close to majoring in theater, but couldn't submit myself to all the trash that is out there in the college scene. To this day when I see a high school play I wonder if perhaps I should go back and just do it...I feel like they need me! (I'm so vain!) Its funny to me that in high school and college singing was never my forte (I always loved it, but I was never known for my strength as a soloist) and now it seems to have taken the front seat. One of my life long goals/dreams is to open my own theatre and share what I love with my community.
4. I am obsessed with the Presidential primary race. I truly believe that Mitt Romney is the best choice to be our next President and not just because he's Mormon. I can't say that doesn't affect me at all, but it is by no means the sole reason I think he would be the best for the job. He has proven himself as an incredibly effective and successful leader, something our country is in dire need of. He has an awesome track record of making things that are failing turn around and come out on top, this would be invaluable to our economic situation. And finally he has fought for what he believes is right as Governor even though it wasn't easy. He stuck to it and got the ball rolling in the right direction, I want someone who is willing to fight Congress or the courts if he has to. These and many other reasons (like the fact that he is right on a majority of the issues at hand) are the reasons I am completely obsessed with this race. To be perfectly honest, though, I don't think he'll win, but as you can see I think it will be America's loss.
5. I am a major "LOSTie" and am now playing the alternate reality game Find 815. It is so silly to have a show that I follow so closely, but it is also so much fun! I love having something to look forward to each week. I am also thrilled that they have a plan for ending the show in 3 seasons. I hate the thought of it going on and on and never getting anything resolved. January 31 (the season premiere) can't come soon enough!
6. I have a serious addiction...I am completely and totally addicted to the phone. I wake up wondering who I can call (which is no one...its like 4 or 5 am where my friends live). I start calling people and more often than not don't get answers, but I don't give up...I go through my entire phone list on my phone several times each day thinking of who to call (I don't actually call everyone on my list). If I do get a hold of someone after I'm done talking to them, my finger automatically starts scrolling through the list again. I use over 2000 minutes by myself every month! I attribute this addiction to my love of friends and need for quality time, but still...I need help people!
So there you have it...more than you cared or needed to know about me!
Monday, January 14, 2008
1. How often do you exercise and what do you do for exercise?
I go for a walk pushing all 3 boys a few times a week. I was running with them, but this whole pregnancy thing took its toll, hopefully I'll be able to pick it back up in a couple weeks when I'll (hopefully) be feeling better. We also really like having dance parties and I always get a good work out dancing around holding each boy in turn.
2. Do you make your bed everyday?
Most days, but if I let the kids into my room its all in vain.
3. What do you do in the evening hours? TV? Blog? Read? Clean the house? ;)
I do all of the above. I generally save folding laundry until the kids are out of my hair and I like to watch TV while I do that. I REALLY hate this writer's strike and I can hardly wait for January 31 when LOST premieres. Then I will watch TV every Wednesday night (for at least 8 weeks anyway!). The only good thing on TV right now are the Presidential Debates. I also get online to blog, check out the latest in the elections, and Find 815 (I'm a total LOST junkie)!
4. What are you having for dinner tonight?
We're having French Dip sandwiches and I can hardly wait!
5. What did you have for dinner last night?
Pot roast, mashed potatoes, and green salad. It was delicious!
6. Who does the dishes at your house? Who takes out the garbage?
So, I've discovered through reading all my friends' answers to these questions how lucky I am...on this one in particular. Ethan and I take turns every other night doing the dishes. It is great! We each get to look forward to when its not our turn, we only have to do half the time, and it gives us an opportunity to serve each other if we're feeling especially giving. Ethan generally takes out the trash, but if the smell gets too bad (we don't have a disposal people!) I do it...lately it seems I've been doing it more and more...you don't think the pregnancy is affecting me do you? :)
7. Give me one favorite cleaning/household tip that you have learned and use regularly.
I'm by no means an expert...my tip is turn on the tunes! Rockin' out while you (and everyone else) clean makes it so much more enjoyable!
8. Do you pluck your eyebrows? I just recently discovered that people do this. I've never even thought about it. Do you do it?
First of all, I can not believe you didn't know people didn't do this, KellyAnne! My friends have been doing it since at least 8th grade. I, however, DO NOT! Never have and hopefully will never HAVE to (I say "have" because I'm sure I could benefit from it, but until it is absolutely necessary I refuse).
9. How many nights of the week does your family have dessert?
Too many! The kids want a treat after every meal it seems. In my defense though, sometimes a treat is just some fruit. In all honesty, we probably have dessert 5 times a week...there I said it, judge if you must!
10. What time do you wake up in the morning, and what time of day do you take a shower?
I wake up at 8:00 am to read my scriptures. The boys aren't allowed to bug me until 8:30. Showering is never on schedule! It just depends on what we have going on for the day! Its supposed to happen between 9 and 10 though.
Tuesday, January 08, 2008
January Book
Anne Elliot, heroine of Austen's last novel, did something we can all relate to: Long ago, she let the love of her life get away. In this case, she had allowed herself to be persuaded by a trusted family friend that the young man she loved wasn't an adequate match, social stationwise, and that Anne could do better. The novel opens some seven years after Anne sent her beau packing, and she's still alone. But then the guy she never stopped loving comes back from the sea. As always, Austen's storytelling is so confident, you can't help but allow yourself to be taken on the enjoyable journey

One of the reason I'm dying to do a Jane Austen book is that I am very eager to read a new Shannon Hale book entitled, Austenland. I think we will discuss this one in February, so get your reading glasses ready for some fun chick lit! (sorry guys) Here's a taste of what to expect from this one, quoting Publisher's Weekly...
In 32-year-old singleton Jane Hayes's mind, no man in the world can measure up to Fitzwilliam Darcy—specifically the Fitzwilliam played by Colin Firth in the BBC adaptation of Pride and Prejudice. Jane is forced to confront her Austen obsession when her wealthy great-aunt Carolyn dies and leaves her an all-expenses-paid vacation to Pembrook Park, a British resort where guests live like the characters in Jane's beloved Austen novels. Jane sees the trip as an opportunity for one last indulgence of her obsession before she puts it "all behind her—Austen, men, fantasies, period," but the lines between reality and fiction become pleasantly blurred as Jane acclimates to the world of Spencer jackets and stringent etiquette rules, and finds herself torn between the Darcyesque Mr. Nobley and a forbidden tryst with Pembrook Park's gardener.
Saturday, January 05, 2008
One Dog Canoe
I haven't done a children's book for a few days and I came across this one at my last library visit. One Dog Canoe is awesome! Its about a girl who takes her dog in her canoe and then has several animals join in the fun! The illustrations are fantastic, Levi (who loves any book with animals) adores, and so do the older boys because its a silly story. Lots of fun!




